And if you are struggling with something that is important to you, and you feel like your life is unfair, look at the people around you and realize that everyone is struggling with something, and it is just as hard for them as it is for you. I have struggled with all of the things you listed here in the past, but I can proudly say that I no longer do! Some things I no longer struggle with, but they are doable! Sure, I have to remind myself of it on bad days, but overall I have made progress. When half of my brain thinks I have to give it my all and everything has to be perfect, the other half, the half that listens to your class and those wonderful blogs and touching comments from people, says, “No, you don’t have to, take your time.” When I take the time to go through the articles, read these blogs, I finally feel a sense of peace, knowing that I can’t always change at my own pace just because I made a decision. I’m losing the weight I’ve always wanted to lose, I feel more energetic, and as a 30 year old diabetic, my blood sugar is actually normal! I’m still afraid to change my lifestyle, as strange as it sounds, but I’m still motivated to do what I’ve been doing so far – get out of my comfort zone. I’ve been to a psychologist for the first time in my life and I’m still digesting what they did to me. Georgia, what a great quote: rejection is God’s protection, I had never heard that before! This is why I love reading Mark and Angels articles, because not only do they impart a lot of wisdom, but they also elicit a lot of reactions from other readers. I totally agree with everything you have written here! I’ve had a few tough situations in my life and I’ve learned to stop blaming myself for not being perfect and live the life I deserve. You guys are amazing! I’ve been reading your book and blog periodically for a year now and I feel better than ever. For a few months I was depressed about work and life in general. So I started getting rid of all the negative thoughts and behaviors that were holding me back; then I took a step forwardand . They could hear what I was doing, but they didn’t understand what was going on. Sometimes you have to let go of who you have become and remember who you should be, who you can be, and who you really are in the moment.